Fan refuses to give up his sold-out concert ticket for his friend’s girlfriend, who only wants to go after tickets are impossible to get: ‘I bought tickets to see our favorite band, I paid and have been looking forward to it for months’

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  • Crowd at a live concert with raised hands, bright stage lights, and musicians onstage.
  • AIO for refusing to give up my concert ticket for my friend's girlfriend?

    A few months ago, my friend (Let's call him Wyatt) and I bought tickets to see our favorite band. We've both been fans for years and were really excited
  • because this tour sold out almost instantly. We made plans to go together and have been talking about it ever since.
  • Recently, Wyatt's girlfriend (Let's call her Carly) decided she wants to go too. The problem is that the show is sold out and there aren't any tickets available through the venue anymore.
  • Wyatt called me a few days ago and asked if I would consider giving my ticket to Carly. Apparently she's been telling him that since she's his girlfriend, she
  • Crowd at a live concert with raised hands and bright blue stage lights.
  • should be the one going with him instead. I honestly thought he was joking at first. I bought my own ticket months ago.
  • Nobody paid for it except me. If I gave it up, I wouldn't be able to get another ticket because the show is sold out.
  • I told him no, and now things are weird. Wyatt says he understands where I'm coming from, but he also says Carly is upset and feels
  • Crowd watching a concert in a packed arena with bright stage lights and people filming on phones.
  • like he should prioritize her because they're dating. He keeps asking if I'm sure I won't reconsider. What bothers me is
  • that this wasn't some last-minute thing. Wyatt and I planned this for months. Carly knew we were going. She only decided she wanted to attend after tickets
  • became impossible to get. Now I feel like I'm being painted as selfish for not wanting to give up something I paid for and have been looking forward to for
  • months. At the same time, I don't think it's reasonable for someone to expect another person to hand over their ticket just because they're dating one of the people going.
  • Am I overreacting for being annoyed and refusing to give her my ticket?
  • Low_Strain5666 NOR. You bought your ticket months ago (like, you paid your own $120 or whatever), so Carly doesn't get to "girlfriend rank” her way into it. If Wyatt wants
  • to go with her, he can either hunt resale tickets or go with her another night; asking you to eat the loss is wild. I'd be annoyed too... and yeah maybe I'm a little
  • petty, but I'm not handing over something I planned for that long. If it stays weird, I'd just go anyway and let him decide if he's bailing on you.
  • DrSnoopRob Tell Wyatt that you want to see the band, but to make it easier for him to deal with girlfriend that he can give you his ticket and you'll find someone else to go with you.

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